So so so often I see things, or read things, or whatever, and I just have this burning desire to tell the person little snippets of advice. Since you guys are the only ones who might take this well, I'm just going to write them all out. Take this as you will.
Quit trying so damn hard. Sucking your gut in does not make you look skinny. It makes it look like you're sucking your gut in. Same with sticking your boobs/butt out. Chill.
Don't, I mean do not ever, make yourself the victim. It's okay to be frustrated, upset, etc. But as soon as you make it look like you're the victim, people quit giving a flying fuck what happens to you.
Have some respect for yourself. If someone is treating you like shit, let them know that you will not take that! You are smarter, stronger, prettier, and better than that. Do not let someone treat you like less than you are.
Along those same lines, know what you deserve. If you're not good at something, don't act like you are. If you said something stupid, don't try to pass it off as smart. Own up to it and move on. You'll get more respect that way.
Dudebro, you need to work hard. You can never in your life expect people to give things to you. When your slacking catches up to you, no one but you is going to feel sorry for you. Fact.
Throwing copious amounts of money at useless expensive items is not cool. Knowing what you want/need and saving up for it accordingly is cool. Be smart with your money.
Hon, you need to learn how to punctuate. If you read a sentence that doesn't have any kind of commas or anything that leads on to something else it's just really confusing and it's like the voice in your head doesn't even know how to like read it and stuff you see the problem here ya use punctuation please.
It's okay to have dreams and goals, but you need to be realistic. Not so much cynical so you'll lose sight of your goal, but realistic. How are you going to pay for everything? Who will you depend on? What if something falls through? Is this dependable? Can I make this work? These are the kind of questions that are important to have answered. Having goals are good. They're awesome, actually. Just make sure your ass is covered before you jump.
Learn from your past. Seriously.
Learn from other people's mistakes.
Don't lie to yourself. The sooner you own up to everything, the sooner you can tackle it. Then you won't have to worry about it anymore. It's a lot easier than you think.
I'm not going to lie to you, throwing all your cards on the table when you talk to God is the best thing you could do if you're having problems. Don't bullshit him. Don't hide anything. Just let it go.
Second best thing to do if you're having problems: Pandora. That thing is the fucking shit.
Third best thing (but easily second best if you have a working car/drivers license): hanging out with real people. Just being around people makes you feel better. Talking about all your deep dark secrets with them is even better.
Last thing: people don't care if you're a whore, just be nice and don't talk about your escapades. And keep your herps away from people who don't want any.
That's all.
The girl who still has the mentality of the team mom,
Chrissy Joy♥
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